If pen seems too much of a commitment,
write in pencil
When you've got your long list
of wishes, read through
If you can't decide which are
your favourites - pick three at random
If you find yourself pulling out more/doing best of three then you have got the wrong answer.
Stop, see if you can decide what it is your heart desires (I think this is the secret behind wishing well).
If you still can't decide then perhaps you want to stay where you are for now. This is fine - but appreciate where you are, what you have and leave the wishing for later. If the time isn't right - then thinking 'later I will....' is more helpful than thinking 'if only I could...'
Or you can try some thoughtful wishing and see if being more specific about your wishes helps.
if your wishes are about getting a bit more of what you already have. Give thnaks for what you've got. Think how, specifically, you would like more - where, when and with whom do you want more?
It may be that your wishes are
about fine-tuning rather than dramatic life changes. Small wishes can
be every bit as powerful as the big ones.